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Poh\pÅhÀ kvt\lw \ntj[n¡pIbpw, ]nSn¨phbv¡pIbpw sNbvXt¸mÄ kvt\lw sImXn¡p¶hÀ Poh\nÃm¯ DXv]¶§fpambn N§m¯¯nembn. samss_epw CâÀs\äpw \hkmaqly k¼À¡ am[ya§fpw AhcpsS Gähpw ASp¯ kplr¯p¡fmbn. Ahbvs¡Ãmw F{X kabw sNehgn¡m\pw AhÀ¡v Hcp aSnbpanÃ. D¸\§fpsS ASna¯¯nÂ\n¶v Ahsc tamNn¸n¡phm³ Hcp amÀKtabpÅq. kvt\lt¯msSbpÅ hnfnbpw, kvt\lw \nd¨ kwkmchpw kvt\lm´co£¯nsâ \nÀanXnbpw.

]utemkv A¸kvtXme³, hnip² ss__nfn kvt\ls¯¡pdn¨v at\mlcamb HcpteJ\w FgpXnbn«pWvSv. (1 tImdn. 13þmw A[ymbw) \mw ssZhZqX·msct¸mse kwkmcn¨mepw hnÚm\hpw Dd¨ hnizmkhpw DWvSmbmepw henb Zm\[Àa§Ä sNbvXmepw kvt\lansæn Hcp {]tbmP\hpansömWv At±lw ]dbp¶Xv. kvt\l¯nsâ KpWKW§fpw At±lw hnhcn¡p¶pWvSv. kvt\lw ZoÀL£abpÅXpw ZbbpÅXpamWv, kvt\lw Akqbs¸Sp¶nÃ, Al¦cn¡p¶nÃ, tIm]n¡p¶nÃ, kIeXpw kln¡p¶p F¶p XpS§n At\Iw Imcy§Ä XeapdIÄ¡mbn At±lw Ipdn¨n«n«pWvSv.

\aps¡m¸apÅXpw \ap¡p NpäpapÅXpamb FÃm krãnIfpw \½psS kvt\lw B{Kln¡p¶pWvSv. \½psS amXm]nXm¡Ä PohnX ]¦mfnIÄ, a¡Ä, _Ôp¡Ä, kplr¯p¡Ä, hnZymÀYnIÄ, kl{]hÀ¯IÀ, thZ\n¡p¶hÀ IqSmsX {]IrXnbpw aäp PohPme§fpw. a\pjy³ Ahsâ kvt\l¯nsâ ]mew Chcntebv¡p\o«pIbpw AXphgn Ahcnse¯pIbpw sN¿pt¼mÄ, AhnsS kvt\l km{amPy¯nsâ Øm]\w XpS§pIbmbn.
\½psS kvt\lw aäpÅhÀ¡p a\knem¡p¶nÃ, AhcXv XncnsI \ÂIp¶nà F¶Xv Hcp ]Xnhv ]cmXnbmWv. ChnsS \mw {i²nt¡WvS Imcy§fpWvSv. kvt\ls¯ Hcp hnImc{]IS\ambn am{Xw \mw ImWp¶p. F¶m aäv NneXpIqSn AXns\m¸w thWw. F´mWh?

L Listen to them (aäpÅhsc tIÄ¡pI)
O Open up (lrZbw Xpd¶v kwkmcn¡pI)
V Value them (Ahsc hneaXn¡pI)
E Empathise (AhtcmSv X·bo`mhw ]peÀ¯pI.)
Bgw {]iv\aÃm¯ Htcsbmcp ISÂ am{Xta temI¯nepÅp. AXv kvt\l¡SÂ am{Xw.

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